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Free online session with our Artistic Director Nuna Sandy.

Tuesday 28 January, 13:00-14:00 on Zoom.

Join our Artistic Director Nuna Sandy to learn about Affinity Groups at Company Three: spaces for young people to come together with artists who share an identity, and to creatively explore that together.

Nuna will share Company Three’s journey and approach to this work, and some tips for setting up your own Affinity Groups and making work about identity, led by the teenagers involved.

This is a free session, but we only have 20 spaces available as we would like to create a space with a range of perspectives.

Please apply by filling in the form below. The first part asks about you and why you'd like to come to the session and must be filled in. The second part asks you for some demographic information and is optional, but will help us to curate a space which has a range of perspectives. It should only take about five minutes to fill in.

We will be in touch by Mon 27 Jan 14:00 at the latest to let you know if you have been given a space.

If you have any questions about the form or the session, get in touch with Gabi at gabi@companythree.co.uk

“I just love the togetherness in the room… everyone sharing experiences because everybody understands what everybody means.” - Affinity Group member.

Affinity Groups are spaces for our young people to talk and creatively explore parts of their identity with other members and artists who share their identity.

Learn how you would set up your own affinity group in your youth theatre, youth group or school with these pay-what-you-can Blueprints.

We’ve noticed that providing space for groups of young people who share an identity allowed them to find the words to articulate their stories authentically, get validation from the others in the group who connect with the same experiences, gain confidence, comfortability and normalise speaking unfiltered.

We think these are valuable spaces for all youth theatre groups so wanted to share our practice and experience so other groups could set up their own.

 

We know that setting up an Affinity Group can be daunting, so we compiled a list of frequently asked questions and did our best to answer them based on our experience.

These questions have come from other youth theatre artists and leaders.

 Any other questions you’d like us to answer? Let us know by emailing Gabi at gabi@companythree.co.uk and we’ll do our best to answer them.

  • Affinity Groups are spaces to talk and explore parts of your identity with a creative outlet run by artists who share the same identity. This could be from the core team or we would bring in freelancers to run the session

    We are clear we are not therapists, this is a space to speak unfiltered and make work whether that be poem, rap, monologue, scenes, dance, art.

  • If you were interested in widening the scope in which your young people can speak about their lived experience of being a teenager and how that has an influence on the stories they tell and the way they are told this is an avenue to go down. 

    Identity, depending on what it is and where you live can be harder to speak about then others, hard to see representation of it, harder to explore. All these things make it even more important to create a space for one to exist. 

    When you identify these elements the second step is too offer the idea of the group to teh young people to see take up and interest.

  • Then it's important to use your wider youth theatre network and find freelancers who canfacilitate this space. 

    Depending on your safeguarding policy at work, core team members can be on the premises but not in the room, and/or you could provide some training on your organisation's practice.

  • Ask to have a chat with the Artistic Director or creative team and explain the need for this space - see ‘Why should I set up an affinity group?’

    Explain the importance in providing a safe space for the young people who for various reasons will filter their experience in mixed spaces, worry that things won't be understood, or not feel comfortable answering questions.

    This is not about segregation permanently. Explain that it’s important for the young people in the group to be validated, understood, feel connected with shared experience and grow in confidence. They need to know that this part of their identity has its own story to tell and would benefit from developing the skills in telling it and unlearning what they would have shared it in the past (for a white lens/gaze).

    The hope is that these stories then begin to bleed into other spaces, main groups, plays and sessions, making the work overall richer as well as providing a space for wider breadth of stories to be told, the way they are told and who they are told for.

  • Ask questions regularly about what the young people want from the space.

    Listen and bring prompts or ask them to bring in their own prompts.

    Look for shows and examples of representation in art for them to watch.

    Ask what they want from the group - once achieved, ask if they want to continue or if the group has served its purpose.

  • Explain the reason for the group; it could be that you overheard discussion on this topic and want to provide space for the young people to explore further, or that situations in the world might mean this group could want a space like this right now.

    Be clear about the parameters for the young people, for example: you can come and try it out, you don’t need to come to every session.

  • Explain the importance of representation in the theatre and of these spaces for the young people, their families, the stakeholders in their lives, the wider community, and - if you make a show/film/piece of art - for audiences to hear their stories.

    At C3, we’re proud to be an Arts Council England National Portfolio Organisation, receiving core funding to support our work over a four-year period. In addition to this vital support, we are grateful for the generosity of several Trusts and Foundations, including the Cripplegate Foundation, Esmee Fairbairn Foundation, Henry Smith Charity, Islington Council VCS, Lightbulb Trust, Mercers’ Charitable Trust, Paul Hamlyn Foundation, Tomoro Foundation, Tuxian, and Vogue World. You could look into those funders.

  • You explain in the beginning that the space isn’t for counselling and none of the staff are therapists. However, having staff share the same identity means what may feel like labour/ trauma to others is actually helpful to talk to in space like this. Many issues facing them would have been similar if not the same to issues experienced by adults who can shed a light on, advice, historical context, perspective. 

    However, if an affinity group does get too heavy then you can bring in a wellbeing practitioner to hold space for that topic if it’s affecting lots of people in the group, or sign post individuals to professionals.

  • We don’t think any organisation should be persuading young people into doing things or joining a group they don’t want to. But if a young person wants to join an affinity group and their parents or guardian don't want them to, this is worth looking into. It may involve a conversation with parents or guardians to understand why it's a no.

    It’s important that these spaces are about exploring identity through creativity with people who have shared experience, not about convincing anyone of a different perspective. For example, you might support a young person to explore what it's like being a Christian teenager or gay but not to do bible study or influence their sexuality or gender expression.

    For LGBTQ+ groups, we were advised to explain what the group was about to parents (e.g. a space to creatively explore, understand and celebrate parts of your identity), while keeping it vague enough to not out anyone. 

  • See the games blueprint here.

    You could also create new games with the group, with topics and themes connected to the group.


  • For our regular groups, once a month has always felt enough, but if working towards a show or sharing, then meeting once a week or your regular rehearsal pattern should work.

    Some groups might only meet once or twice, depending on need and what is going on in the world.

  • Discuss with the whole group of young people that there are many things about ourselves we share with everyone. You could list what they are (e.g growing up in London, views on climate change, being a teenager), however there will be part of our lives that will connect specifically with others (e.g. race, culture, gender, religion).

    To explore those in a comfortable way with others who direct lived experience can help when initially exploring stories and experience as you cut out the explanation, which can often make you feel self conscious and holds back the authenticity of the story.

  • It depends what identity the affinity group is for. At Company Three, it is 12+.

  • We have always been a youth-led organisation, so we do our best to make sure that our affinity groups come from one of two ways:

    Observation
    We’ll offer the opportunity of a group if we’ve noticed recurring identity-based conversations and creative ideas being talked about, joked about and discussed informally by young people during breaks, at lunch time, on the train ride to the theatre (what we call ‘Edgelands’). This is likely to come first if you’ve never had an affinity group before.

    Directly
    When our members ask for them. Once they understand what affinity groups are, and purpose of them, one young person or a collective may ask for one.

  • You explain in the beginning that the space isn’t for counselling and none of the staff are therapists. However having staff share the same identity means what may feel like labour/ trauma to others is actually helpful to talk to in space like this. Many issues facing them would have been similar if not the same to issues experienced by adults who can shed a light on, advice, historical context, perspective. 

    The session should still feel similar to a regular session, except the themes and topics should connect directly to this affinity.

    You could think about how you structure the session to allow for discussion of difficult topics but also joy. For example, if there have been heavy issues in the media, you could sandwich this as below:

    Start with games
    Then do a task
    Give the heavy issue space, allow the young people to talk and vent
    Then do a task based on this conversation - creating a poem, monologue, letter to future you, scene
    Then find some joy/ hope and do some making and sharing from this
    Play a game
    Then check out

    Make sure you can signpost members to further support if it’s necessary, ideally specialist, youth-focused, intersectional support relating to their identity.

    You could also follow up and check in with the group or individuals over the week too.

    However, if the space does get too heavy, you as the facilitator are feeling impacted as well, and wellbeing and mental health is being affected more than usual,  then you could take a pause. You could bring in a wellbeing practitioner to hold space to discuss for that topic.

  • See our four session plan examples for guidance, here.

    But also ask the group what they want to do, what they need from the space, which reminding them it’s not a therapy session.

  • It’s much better to work towards having a creative output and communicating this from the beginning. The conversations should be an exercise in gathering material and the tasks should help them channel their thoughts into expression of art. Whether or not you share or stage the work you create is up to you and the group; there shouldn’t be pressure or obligation to do this.

 

“The best thing about being in an affinity group is that it creates a sense of community, support and understanding… and it creates a sense of security because you know that there are other people who go through similar things to you.”

C3 Member

How Affinity Groups started at Company Three

In 2020, when race was being talked about more than ever, our Black members were actually saying less in open spaces.

It’s not the first time we’ve had social media access to repeatedly watch these horrific moments, this time round felt different. Everyone was talking like they had just discovered that daily racism, systemic racism and white supremacy culture racism existed.

At this time, I - Nuna Sandy - was Associate Director and I noticed and overheard  conversations between small groups of our Black members, speaking about topics which they had only discussed on a surface level during our regular sessions. I sat with one group and they allowed me to join the conversation. They didn’t alter what they were saying or the way they were saying it. I asked them why they didn’t bring this up in the space and they said “It’s harder to talk about this stuff when not everyone is Black. They might not get it.”

It was at this point that I wanted to create a bigger, better space for Black members, held by Black staff, to have those unfiltered conversations, rants, musings, laughter and cries, and allow space for this to be creatively explored. It was evidently clear that they needed to talk in a place where everyone already knew what you meant and you didn’t have to caveat your story.

That’s how the first affinity group, Black Is Safe, started.

Black is Safe is rooted in joy and celebrating each other in a way Black young people can’t at school or in spaces aside from with their family and close trusted friends from the same community. We also acknowledged as a group that we can’t discuss the Black British teenage experience without discussing our pain, but that always brings us back to joy because we needed that more than ever then and now…

As the project grew, we took them to watch Talawa’s Run it Back, a play that was unapologetically Black and didn’t explain itself to anyone.  Although all was welcome, the play assumed you understood the culture, therefore you either got it or you didn’t. The responsibility to understand the cultural nuances and references was on the audience to do their own research.

It was after this that the group decided they wanted to make a play. “You can do that on stage? Talk like that, dance like that, tell stories like that? Ok, we’re down.”

The sessions then took a shift as the group felt more and more comfortable to express some of their own ideas and feelings publicly. It was exciting and refreshing to hear them share their stories and experience in such an authentic way in a drama workshop. We then conceived and created a new play, called #BlackIs…, which captured everything over the last 2 years.

Production photos from #BlackIs at New Diorama Theatre, 2023. Photography by Leon Dohnji.


How our next Affinity Groups were started

It was during the first year of Black is Safe that as a team we began to explore what other affinity groups the young people would benefit from. We have always been a young people led organisation, so we do our best to make sure that affinity groups either come from two ways: 

Directly - When our members ask for them.

Observation - If we’ve noticed recurring identity-based conversations and creative ideas being talked about, joked about and discussed during edgelands as we call them. The parts in between sessions- lunch time, train ride to theatre, residential. We then offer the opportunity of a group.

Over the next 6 months we created several more affinity groups.

We saw these groups benefitting from a space to speak through issues that arise connected to specific issues- toxic masculinity, girls group around social media, Islamaphobia, homophobia and self esteem. These spaces create safe environments for questioning, learning and unlearning in a non judgmental way.


What Affinity Groups are, and why they’re important

Affinity Groups are spaces to talk and explore parts of your identity with a creative outlet run by artists who share the same identity. This could be from the core team or we would bring in freelancers to run the session.

We are clear we are not therapists, this is a space to speak unfiltered, creatively exploring conversations, traditions, stereotypes and nuances whether that be through poem, rap, monologue, scenes, dance, art. It can also be a space free of these conversations to actively seek out joy during difficult times, to connect as a community with understanding of why they need a time out together. 

There is not a set out come - it could be that due to current events specific groups need space for wellbeing and joy. But equally it could be a group that lasts a month or a year or a rolling group like Black Is Safe.

What’s created can stay within the group or it can be shared but the output should always be decided by the young people.

What we have noticed is that providing space for this group allowed them to find the words to articulate their stories authentically, get validation from the others in the group who connect with the same experiences, gain confidence, comfortability and normalise speaking unfiltered. When this accrued themes, topics, and stories began to spill out into our main groups and company.

It was organic and it was great to be able to include a wider range of stories and different aspect/ angles to subjects we were talking about in the wider company.

 

Affinity Group Blueprint

 

 

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 The Story of Affinity Groups at Company Three

 
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Affinity Group Blueprint FAQ

 
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Watch the #BlackIs short films

 
 

 

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Advice from Affinity Group members

 ‘Just let the young people speak as much as they want… then the rest of the sessions you could work on developing what they say.’

 

Give the young people the space to be themselves and express who they are and be their guide.

 

‘First define the purpose and goals of the group clearly, and then create a warm and welcoming environment where everyone feels valued and respected… And never make anyone feel less valued than they actually are.’